Go on 5 Dates with Women You’re Actually Excited About in 90 Days or Less.
Follow my personalized 90-day plan from The Dating Edge, the Amazon Top-20 Bestseller in ‘Mate Seeking,’ and start meeting women you’re actually excited about without wasting time or energy.
Why Most Men Stay Stuck and How You Break Through
If the patterns on the left feel familiar, the outcomes on the right are what we’ll build over the next 90 days.
What You’ll Avoid
- Repeating dating patterns that lead nowhere.
- Wasting time and energy on mismatched women.
- Following advice that feels fake or extreme.
- Feeling drained by effort that never pays off.
What You’ll Achieve
- A clear strategy built around your lifestyle and goals.
- Real dates with women who excite you and share long-term potential.
- Tools to filter quickly and confidently.
- A sustainable system that makes dating enjoyable again.
Testimonials
“Working with Bates helped me regain the confidence I needed to start dating again. I now have an incredibly beautiful, intelligent, and loving girlfriend. Thanks to Bates, I intend to propose in just a few months. Dreams do come true!”
- Matt W.
“Consistently getting to witness and absorb knowledge from Bates has led to not only better dates, but more confidence in who I am, better communication in my needs, and more connection with not only potential partners but with my close friends. He’s an absolute stud who speaks only from experience.”
- Tory H.
“Bates has a keen ability to ask questions that have helped me to not only question the way I approach relationships but completely approach them in a whole new light”
- Joel C.
“Bates’s superpower is being authentically himself and empowering other men to do the same. This approach helps his clients build more genuine connections and healthy, transparent relationships. If you’re tired of living on the “wide path” traveled by most guys, join Bates on the “narrow path” and find yourself in healthier relationships.”
- Steven H.
“Working with Bates helped me streamline my time and become the healthiest version of myself. I built muscle, felt more confident, and noticed women responding way better to my approach. If you're on the fence, check out his work. You won’t regret it.”
- Will R.
“Bates is incredibly knowledgeable when it comes to relationships and dating. His perspective is rare, authentic, real, and effective. What I value most is that he practices what he preaches. He’s done a ton of experimenting, talked to and worked with all kinds of people, and pulled together a playbook of best practices that actually work. No gimmicks, no games. It’s about building real connection and real relationships. Anyone would be lucky to work with Bates.”
- Bradley J.
“I used to think that getting in a relationship would slow me down... that it would be a distraction... that it would get in the way of my goals. And then Bates said something to me that changed my life... “1+1=4”. I’m now in a VERY happy relationship and I can safely say... he was right. The RIGHT relationship is a catalyst for growth, not a hinderance.”
- Corey H
“Talking with Bates is always refreshing. He articulates concepts clearly and with humility, making it easy to understand and genuinely want to consider his perspective. Whether you agree or not, he invites thoughtful engagement. His mix of passion, compassion, and real-life experience fires me up and gives me hope for what’s possible! It’s not just theory; he’s lived it and it shows. I seriously appreciate him. Now I just need to land that first date and start stacking some experience of my own.”
- Mike C.
“Bates has a gift for encouraging, fostering, and strengthening others. Whether you are in need of relationship insight, fundamental health guidance, or just feeling lost and need a fellow to help right your ship, Bates is that man. I have experienced the benefits of being his casual listener, client, and friend, and I am better for it. Confidence, strength, and vitality are within your reach. Whatever your burdens, Chris may not be able to carry it for you…but he can carry you.”
- Kevin F
“Talking with Bates about dating and women has been both inspiring and eye-opening. Everything he shares is rooted in integrity, whether it’s approaching women with honesty, being clear when it’s not a fit, and showing up instead of avoiding tough conversations. His approach simplifies what often feels like a chaotic dating world and helps you focus on what really matters. I appreciate that his guidance aligns with one of my core values: authenticity. He offers practical steps to stay grounded and true to yourself, even in a complicated dating landscape. Bates makes the whole process feel clear, actionable, and genuinely aligned with building something real.”
- Ben A.
"I honestly think Bates helped me with his knowledge, knowing what I'm worth, helping me focus on myself, and making sure I'm on the right path. Thanks to the value he offered, I know that I can take any woman out on a date I'm interested in and I know what I'm capable of."
- Hans M.
"I’m recording this while celebrating my engagement out in Lake Como, Italy. I proposed to the woman of my dreams just a few days ago and there’s no doubt Bates played a role in that. I’ve known him a long time and deeply respect how he shows up in relationships, both personally and in the way he helps other men. I took a few plays straight from his playbook on dates two, three, and five. They created real depth that helped build the foundation for a healthy, lasting connection. If you’re on the fence about working with him or diving into his material, just know: he’s the real deal. Ethical, intentional, and one of the best people I know. He’ll absolutely be at my wedding."
- Delaney M.
Transform Your Dating Life in 90 Days
This isn’t another vague course or motivational pep talk. It’s a 90-day system built for men who are done guessing, waiting, or winging it. You’ll rebuild your foundation from the ground up: your health, mindset, and dating strategy. So the right women are attracted to you. Every week has a purpose, and every step builds momentum. This is where clarity, structure, and real progress replace frustration and overthinking.
Outcomes to Expect
By Day 30 — Build Your Foundation
- Create a life that attracts rather than chases by improving your energy, focus, and confidence through dialed-in habits.
- Get clear on your North Star so you stop wasting time on the wrong women or the wrong routines.
- Wake up with more energy and clarity each morning, and start feeling a noticeable shift in your confidence after just a few weeks.
- Feel your health, purpose, and direction align as you become the most capable and attractive version of yourself.
By Day 60 — Master the System
- Optimize dating apps and real-world approaches so they finally work for you.
- Start getting matches and conversations that actually lead to dates with women you’re genuinely excited about.
- Learn to naturally stand out from other men without gimmicks or “pickup” tactics.
- Save hours and money each week by automatically filtering out women who aren’t aligned with your goals while capturing the attention of those who are.
By Day 90 — Lead With Clarity and Discernment
- Go on consistent dates with women who have genuine long-term potential.
- Use proven systems and frameworks to confidently discern which women truly align with your values and long-term vision.
- Refine your dating structure so it continues working for you, helping you recognize and lock down the right woman when she comes along.
- By this point, you’re not wondering what women want; you know exactly who fits your life and how to attract her.
If you’ve spent months feeling stuck or second-guessing what women actually want, this call will give you a clear path forward.
(No pressure, no sales pitch — just a free strategy session to help you get unstuck.)
What Your 90-Day Transformation Includes
You don’t need more theory or dating hacks. You need a system that gives you structure, feedback, and clarity — here’s exactly what that looks like.
12-Week Core System
Short, high-impact video modules and weekly action worksheets that help you take consistent, strategic steps toward finding the right woman.
$2,000 Value
1:1 Coaching Calls (Onboarding + Graduation)
Two private sessions with Chris to clarify your goals, build your personalized roadmap, and ensure lasting success after 90 days.
$1,500 Value
Direct Access to Chris for Personalized Feedback
Ongoing asynchronous support during your 90-day program to fine-tune your dating approach, mindset, and lifestyle systems in real time.
$2,500 Value
Private Circle Access (Lifetime)
Join a high-integrity men’s community built on growth, accountability, and real results. Share wins, get feedback, and stay connected long after the program ends.
$1,000 Value
Video Vault: Real Small-Group Calls
Access private recordings from powerful group discussions on dating, discipline, health, and purpose — so you can learn from real transformations, not theory.
$1,000 Value
Continuous Resource Expansion + Monthly AMA Access
Lifetime updates to the course, tools, and Q&A calls so your dating edge continues to evolve with you.
$1,750 Value
Total Value $9,750
Your Investment: A fraction of that — revealed on your free call.
Men have paid five-figures for similar programs without lifetime access, direct feedback, or ongoing support like this.
Whether you move forward or not, this 45-minute call will give you clarity on what’s holding you back and how to fix it fast.
My Promise
Ready to Find Women Worth Your Time?
You don’t need another dating app hack or mindset quote. You need a clear plan that works.
Follow the 90-day system and go on 5 dates with women you’re genuinely excited about — without burnout, games, or guesswork.
If you put in the effort and don’t get results, Bates will keep working with you personally until you do. Because when you follow the plan, it works.
Ready to Find Women Worth Your Time? Book your free strategy call to map out your next 90 days and start meeting women who actually excite you.
Meet Bates — The Coach Behind The Dating Edge
Chris Bates is the author of The Dating Edge and a longtime performance and relationship coach who helps men build the health, mindset, and dating systems that make finding the right woman simple and sustainable.
Before coaching, Chris led health transformations for thousands of men as the Lead Health Coach under Dr. Paul Saladino at Heart & Soil. After his own post-divorce reset, where he went on more than 80 first dates in a year, he developed a process that helps men attract high-quality women without burnout, confusion, or gimmicks.
He’s helped over 100 men transform their confidence, optimize their routines, and start dating women they’re genuinely excited about. His mission is to help good men stop wasting time and lock down the woman of their dreams.
Take the Next Step Toward the Relationship You Want
You don’t need another dating hack. You need a framework that actually works.
If you’re tired of wasting time, overthinking every interaction, or ending up in the wrong situations, this is where it changes.
Book your free 45-minute Dating Audit with Bates to get a personalized 90-day plan to start going on dates you’re genuinely excited about.
No pressure. No games. Just clarity on what’s holding you back — and how to fix it.
Grab a spot while they’re available!